Here’s the deal. Four years ago, I wrote a book called Is That All He Thinks About? (How to Enjoy Great Sex with Your Husband). It’s for women (obviously), and I never really had any intention of writing a companion book for men.

Men don’t read. (okay, most men don’t read)

But then I got a bunch of e-mails from men specifically requesting a guys’ version of the book.

So I’m writing my first comic book. (not really)

I just have a strong desire to help bridge the disconnect between husbands and wives and our view on sex (and how that plays out in our marriages).

A couple months ago I started writing to see what I could come up with. Then I got really excited about it. Then I wrote a whole bunch. Then I hit a wall. Then I decided that what the book really needed was some input from the husbands themselves (concept, huh?).

Hence this survey.

As of 9:03 a.m. Friday, 63 guys have filled it out and sent it to me anonymously. And they’re BLOWING ME AWAY. Out of 63, I’d say maybe 2-3 have been completely unhelpful. And some have just been flat-out amazing. Some are heart-breaking. And nearly all of them have been honest and thoughtful.

Women, I know this is a random sampling of 63 guys, and I know that any guy who takes the time to fill out a survey is already kind of special, but hear me on this. Your husbands genuinely love you and want to please you and are willing to make sacrifices to make this happen.

This little project will most likely become an e-book that you can buy online and read from your computer/Kindle/phone. It might possibly be a book you can hold in your hands with actual pages. We’ll see. (While you’re waiting, go ahead and read the Wife’s Book. Enlightening, I tell you.)

Guys, I really, really, really appreciate your help. If you could pass this on to your friends, that would be awesome. The more the merrier.

Married men–click here to take the survey (10 questions, easy answers, painless, anonymous, maybe even fun). Thanks!