Comments on: celebrating with abigail

By: Mandy

Mandy — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 13:14:02 +0000

I will be praying for you, Amy and Billy. My sister’s first baby, a son, passed on about 20 minutes after his birth, the day after his due date (a little over 2 years ago). He had a never-before-documented genetic syndrome that was discovered at the 20-week ultrasound. My sister was urged to terminate the pregnancy, but refused. She wanted to be with her son as long as she could and was rewarded by getting to hold him. I wish I could have been there with her. She and her husband now have a healthy 6-month-old daughter. They celebrate their son’s birthday every year with a special family hike in a national park. My sister has found much comfort in participating in a group for mom’s who have lost infants. It really helps her to know that she’s not alone and that there are others who understand what she’s going through, at least to some degree. When she was pregnant with her daughter, she often worried that she would not love her daughter as much as she loves her son. She asked my mom about it, and my mom comforted her by reminding her that mothers are able to love each new child just as much as their older brothers and sisters. Mothers’ hearts expand each time and there is plenty of special love for each child.
I hope and pray that you, Amy and Billy, will experience God’s perfect peace and comfort during this time.

By: The Secret Life of Kat

The Secret Life of Kat — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 11:48:07 +0000

I’m praying for you Amy and Billy. And I had a thought:

I think Abigail will be honored and remembered that much MORE because of her new sibling. She will forever be a part of who her sibling is – and her new brother or sister will carry on the legacy (physically) of love that started with her.

I know this is different, but I think it’s also quite the same…my mother died when I was an infant. I never talked to her, walked with her or have any memories of her or even pictures with her. I don’t know what she sounded like and I haven’t been told all that much about her personality, likes or dislikes.

But the simple fact that she WAS and that she was MINE has profoundly and deeply impacted every single facet of who I am today.

I believe that will be true of Abigail and her brother or sister, too. He or she will make Abigail’s legacy reach even farther.

Whew. I’ve never written so much to people I’ve never met. All that to say, I’m praying for you and rejoicing with you.

By: Kimberly

Kimberly — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 04:05:01 +0000

Praying for you Amy and Billy. Excited for the possibilities with the new little one and praying for you heartbreak.

By: Morgan

Morgan — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 00:01:56 +0000

Typing through tears. I imagine Abigail is already feeling like a very proud big sister! Billy and Amy have taught me so much about grace and strength through the hardest time. God has worked through them in so many ways and touched so many lives. Thank you for sharing and many prayers and much love being sent!

By: Stephanie your sister

Stephanie your sister — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 20:55:01 +0000

I remember feeling my heart break when I read this story months ago. But now that I’m carrying my own little baby girl, it takes on a whole new meaning. The tears I’m crying come from sadness over the loss of baby Abigail and joy over the wonderful gift of this new little one! Praise God for being a God that gives peace and comfort as well as one that gives us blessings we don’t deserve. I will be praying for Amy and Billy and baby!

By: Chris Yoder

Chris Yoder — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 17:43:03 +0000

I will be praying for you, Amy and Billy! We have a faithful and trustworthy heavenly Father, and He will be there for you and care for your every need! Rejoicing with you!:)

By: Laurel Bruhl

Laurel Bruhl — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 16:48:25 +0000

Oh Amy & Billy! I will be praying for you as you welcome Abigail’s little brother or sister into the world! You will hold a special spot in my prayer list as I know some of the pain you experience and some of the feelings being pregnant with another precious bundle. When our son, Nathan, died of SIDS at 6 1/2 months our hearts broke and life has never been the same. Our great God of comfort and healing is nearly incomprehensible though and through the years He’s worked in our lives in ways we can’t begin to understand. We were blessed with our 2nd son Joshua 9 1/2 months after Nathan’s passing and carrying him was both joyful and bittersweet as I grieved my sweet Nathan. We have since had several children and are now due with our last (we think :-0 ). What makes this baby so signifcant is the due date is Nathan’s eternal birthday, March 16th. So, as I pray for our little bundle of joy and pregnancy, I will remember you and Abigail and her new little brother or sister. The Lord does heal, even though our lives are forever changed. May He surround you with the peace only He can give! Special prayers coming your way!

By: Ali

Ali — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 15:46:43 +0000

Marla. Marla.

What a beautiful post. How tender and dear.

You put into words the sentiments that many of us have for Amy, Billy, Abigail, and Baby Martin.

We absolutely love you, Martin Family.

Sending an infinite number of hugs and prayers your way.

By: Sarah Montanye

Sarah Montanye — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 14:37:30 +0000

WOW! what exciting news!!! I had tears streaming down my face as I read this post. Blessing to your family and your growing baby.

By: Kaye

Kaye — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 13:51:11 +0000

Oh Marla, thanks for sharing and please know I will be praying for their entire family. I’ll continue to ask God for healing and peace of mind.
Love to all,
Kaye
Matthew 21:22